Bad Turned to Good

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” Romans 8:28
This is a very important passage of Scripture when it comes to living with a Biblical worldview. We live in enemy territory where our enemy wants to do bad things to us (Job 1-2). Our God, however, is bigger than our enemy. He can take what our enemy means for bad and turn it around to be used for His glory.
We buried my friend yesterday. It was not easy. Yesterday would have been even harder without the hope the Scriptures give. I have great confidence where my friend is and that I will see them again.
This certainty (Hebrews 11:1) is what gives us the ability to filter whatever comes our way – even the tragic death of a loved one – through the Word of God and know that our God can make something good out of something so terribly wrong. I know from personally filtering this very painful situation through the Word of God that God’s promise of peace is not just a hope, but a reality. I hurt, but I’m at peace. This is what living with a Biblical worldview promises – living each day God’s way has a joyful, though not always easy, ending.
It has been said, “There are times in everyone’s life when something constructive is born out of adversity . . . when things seem so bad that you’ve got to grab the truth and let it run it’s course.” Something good will come out of this very bad situation. This is not fantasy. It is fact – God can indeed turn lemons into lemonade.

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A Hope That Brings Hope

“I sure hope this movie is good.” “I sure hope this meal tastes great.” How do you know the movie will be good? You watch it. The meal? You eat it. Hope becomes reality when you actually experience the thing you’re hoping for.
It’s the same with our hope in Christ. We hope that when we die (many of us have had loved ones go home over the course of the past few weeks) we’ll live forever with Jesus. How do you know you (they) will? You experience death here on earth. What?
Romans 5:1-5 states that our hope comes from a most interesting place – suffering. Yes, real hope, the hope that gets us through painful situations, starts with suffering.
Suffering should cause us to slow down and evaluate our lives, not get mad at God. We live in enemy controlled territory where all the messages want to draw us away from the only true source of joy and peace – Jesus. Challenges then should draw us closer to Jesus, not away. Challenges should make us ask, “Is how I’m living bringing what I really want in life?” If I’m not living God’s way (i.e. with a Biblical worldview), these hard times will expose the weaknesses in the way we think and live. We should use these challenges then to allow Jesus to change us. If we’re already living with our biblical filter in the “on” position, our sufferings will only confirm how we’re approaching life is right.
Either by getting in line with or keeping on in God’s way of thinking, we must persevere, which comes next in Romans 5, in thinking and living His way. Each thought surrendered to Jesus or put to death means our behavior can now be changed. This brings on the next thing Romans 5 talks about, character. Instead of fighting the hard times, use them to become more like Jesus. Guess what? You’ll have just experienced death on earth and seen life come out of it. This brings hope both now and forever!
When the next hopeless or painful situation arises you’ll know two things as fact. One, your God is real. You took God at His Word, put His truths into your head, died to how you thought the painful situation should be handled (i.e. your drug of choice), acted upon those truths by faith and saw God change your life. You now have a personal God whom you can trust. What’s so big about entering eternity if God can change your life now? Your God is real to you. This is huge! But wait, there is more!
The second fact you know is that He will not only get you through your present painful situation, but He’ll also get you through it with a stronger faith and more Christ-like character than you did going into that challenge. You now know your faith works in the real world! This is real hope. Hope based in fact, not fantasy. But there is more!
When God changes your life He is actually molding you into a new house that lasts for eternity – Jesus. This gives each challenge a new perspective. They are actually good for us! They give us hope now and a reality that our time on this planet was not wasted.
Imagine a house with a solid concrete foundation. This is faith in Jesus that makes you a child of God and gets you into heaven. With each challenge you face while living in enemy territory God burns off your studs through suffering and rebuilds your house with Jesus like character, these new studs last forever (1 Cor. 3:1-15). This is the process described in Romans 5.
Yes, we are going through a season of challenges as a family. Instead of questioning God, ask Him to change your life. Instead of walking away, draw closer to Him. You win now and for eternity.

Perfectly Flawed

I planted a nectarine tree in my backyard, which finally produced this year. My expectations ran high until the blossoms started turning into fruit that had sap coming out of them. You heard right. It wasn’t sap coming from the tree, but from the fruit itself.
My wife learned that a bug scars the fruit when it first blossoms. Then when the fruit starts to ripen it becomes deeply scared and deformed. We were about to throw the fruit away until she read an article on how tasty the unscarred portions of the fruit are. And it was true! Yummmm.
We are all scared individuals – some simply stained by the old sin nature and for others life has piled it on. Yet in Christ, we are all seen by God as perfect while we’re in process of being made perfect (Hebrews 10:14). No, this is not a contradiction. While we are in the process of becoming like Jesus God already sees us as perfect, like Jesus. Why? We’re in Jesus’ hands (Col. 3:3). Like a nectarine with my fingers wrapped around it, the Father sees Jesus when He sees us, not the nectarine. Isn’t that cool?
Like that nectarine we are both scarred and sweet at the same time. We are both perfect and flawed. This is true of every believer no matter who you are or what you or others have done to you. We are perfectly flawed people with a choice. We can choose to be real and open with each other so we can get the strength we need to face life’s daily challenges and the junk thoughts that are in our head. Maybe those around my friend, including me, had appearances of being all sweet that kept them from showing their scars and reaching out to us. As a perfectly flawed believer in Christ I’m choosing to stay on the journey to continually learn how to be real with those around me.

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Harder Path Makes You Stronger

On one of the paths I take when I prayer walk in the hills behind my house is a little dirt berm. A farmer put it there to keep people from dumping their trash on his property.
When I come to the berm I have two choices. I can take the easy but longer way by walking around it. Or, I could take the harder and shorter way by walking directly up and over it. The easy path is flat and takes little effort. The harder path has an incline and takes a little strength.
What are you going to do when your enemy or your current situations draw out the junk thoughts from your memory? Take the easy path and head to your drug of choice? Or will you take the harder path by filtering them out of your head and replacing them with the truth using the FREEdom process? Will you take the easy way in your own strength and lose or will you talk the harder path and ask for help from the Spirit of God and the people of God and win?
The easy path is easy for a reason. You can handle it on your own! How’s that going for you? The harder path forces us to depend upon Someone and someones other than ourselves. It is, however, the harder path that brings victory and makes us stronger. I only wish my friend had walked over the berm and called me.

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Be Strong…Be Weak

“The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation. He is my stronghold, my refuge and my savior – from violent men you save me. I call to the LORD, who is worthy of praise, and I am saved from my enemies.” – David, 2 Samuel 22:1-4
A fortress, refuge, stronghold, and shield are places to get behind when you know you can’t defeat your enemy. A deliverer and savior are when another person defeats your enemy for you. David was a stud soldier. He quite literally defeated giants; and yet, he still had to realize that he needed to get behind someone or something in order to experience victory.
The Bible tells us that when we realize that we’re weak, it is then that we become strong (2 Corinthians 12:9-10). When we realize that we can’t defeat what’s going on in our head or the situations we face, who will we get behind – our drugs of choice or Jesus? We know our way of living doesn’t work. It’s time to give Jesus a shot. Sometimes He will defeat our giants just by strengthening us Himself. At other times, He will use other believers to give us victory. The first step, though, is to realize that we need help! We can be our greatest barrier to victory.
We must get rid of our “buts.” “But I hate letting others know my challenges. But I don’t want to burden others with my problems as they have enough of their own. But I don’t like others knowing I can’t handle life.” The enemy uses these excuses to draw us out into the open where we have no shield, stronghold, refugee or fortress to protect us. He can then rip off our joy and peace.
The Bible contains over 38 one another phrases. Think God is trying to say something? We need to open up, call upon, and have others pray for us if we are going to have a healthy faith that brings victory to our lives. We are to be weak by realizing that we can’t win on our own so He can be strong for us. Being strong in your weakness is the sign of a healthy faith, in only my friend had realized this.

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